I can't begin to explain how wonderful it was to be in Canada these last 3 weeks!
Despite my "mom" obligations, I was able to meet up with family and friends.
I stayed with my mom who was super in helping me with the countless things a mom with a toddler needs. She played a lot with Alexander and he was quite in love with her and really became attached to her. He would call for her constantly "Vovó, Vovó, Vo-vó!" and would even call her Mama sometimes! She and I did lots of chatting and catching-up. It was wonderful!
Christina came to visit on a regular basis making it seem like I was back home having special times become normal (although it never stopped being special). Alex loved her and her story telling "...and she said, want to see my plane? Oh and do you like my belt?" or something hilarious like that... When 'reading the pictures' in a Melanie Lyne catalogue...
Also, Alexander decided he wants a dog and kept suggesting talking Charlie and Jeremy out on walks. He walked Jeremy twice and did a darn good job!
My dad and I hung out quite a bit and he and Alex had so much fun that they both had some solid throaty laughs going! We even managed to surprise Naomi after school one day (she's almost my height now and as beautiful as ever).
We had Sunday family brunches where the whole troop showed up including Alistair who is back in TO working on a successful career (when did all the kids grow up)!??
I also spent some wonderful time with my dear girlfriends. We gossiped, caught-up on our busy lives, gave tight hugs, had achy throats (holding back tears), shared ups and downs... Were made into hug-sandwiches by Alex who was running around hugging all of us girls! Oh and I think he got a crush on Mila (Ivana's daughter). She gave him a toy and then thoroughly explained how to use it. He listened intently then wouldn't stop saying her name! "mee-ya, me-ya".
I didn't quite feel as caught-up as I thought I would and haven't begun to tell all the stories of the great times I had... But my heart is warmed. I needed this visit! Thanks everyone! Alexander and I got to enjoy a taste of life on the other side of my world.
After the second week Alex became quite home-sick and towards the end of our stay he was struggling with all the good-bye's. Me too, so surely that didn't help.
Now we are back and Alex is happy to be reunited with his Papa. His toys are all new again and he has repeatedly pushed the buttons on each of his noise-making books... Sorry, story telling song books. He's a happy boy.